Saṁyutta Nikāya:
IV. Saḷāyatana Vagga
37: Mātugāma Saṁyutta
37: Kindred Sayings about Womankind
Sutta 32
Ṭhānam Suttaṁ
Condition1
[1]Thus have I heard:
The Exalted One once addressed the brethren, saying:
"Brethren."
"Lord," responded those brethren to the Exalted One.
The Exalted One thus spoke:
"There are these five conditions, Brethren,
hard to be won
by a woman who has wrought no merit.
What five?
[168] She may wish:
'Oh that I may be reborn in a proper2 family.'
That is the first condition
which is hard to be won
by a woman who has wrought no merit.
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She may wish:
'Born in a proper family,
may I go (as wife) to a proper family.'
That, Brethren, is the second condition
which is hard to be won
by a woman who has wrought no merit.
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She may wish:
'Born in a proper family,
gone (as wife) to a proper family,
may I dwell in the home
without a rival.'3
That, Brethren, is the third condition
which is hard to be won
by a woman who has wrought no merit.
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She may wish:
'Born in a proper family,
gone (as wife) to a proper family,
dwelling in the home without a rival,
may I have a son.'
That, Brethren, is the fourth condition
which is hard to be won
by a woman who has wrought no merit.
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She may wish:
'Born in a proper family,
gone (as wife) to a proper family,
dwelling in the home without a rival,
possessed of a son,
may I continue to have mastery over my husband.'
That, Brethren, is the fifth condition
which is hard to be won
by a woman who has wrought no merit.
Such, Brethren, are the five conditions
which are hard to be won
by a woman who has wrought no merit.
There are these five conditions, Brethren,
easily won
by a woman who has wrought merit.
What five?
She may wish:
'Oh that I may be reborn in a proper family.'
That is the first condition
easily won
by a woman who has wrought merit.
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She may wish:
'Born in a proper family,
may I go (as wife) to a proper family.'
That, Brethren, is the second condition
easily won
by a woman who has wrought merit.
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She may wish:
'Born in a proper family,
gone (as wife) to a proper family,
may I dwell in the home
without a rival.'
That, Brethren, is the third condition
easily won
by a woman who has wrought merit.
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She may wish:
'Born in a proper family,
gone (as wife) to a proper family,
dwelling in the home without a rival,
may I have a son.'
That, Brethren, is the fourth condition
easily won
by a woman who has wrought merit.
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She may wish:
'Born in a proper family,
gone (as wife) to a proper family,
dwelling in the home without a rival,
possessed of a son,
may I continue to have mastery over my husband.'
That, Brethren, is the fifth condition
easily won
by a woman who has wrought merit.
Such, Brethren, are the five conditions
which are easily won
by a woman who has wrought merit.
1 Ṭhānaṁ
2 Patirūpa.
3 Asapattī, another wife.